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      <image:caption>Codependents learn at an early age their emotions don’t matter. They attract relationships where they feel trapped. They try to fix, change, and manage other’s behaviors. They have a hard time knowing what they want. They don’t communicate their feelings honestly or honor their own boundaries. They often tolerate abuse and unmet desires. They are often resentful and angry when they abandon their needs to support others. They feel guilty when they choose to take care of themselves. They have trouble tolerating disappointing others. They believe others cannot survive without them. Here are some more core beliefs of the codependent:</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>We all want love that is healing, supportive, and transformative; but why is it that we often feel the most terrorized by the person closest to us? After the oxytocin stops pumping, we are left with our partner’s utter humanness—their most crunchy and crabby parts—and our own. By stirring up our most vulnerable and disavowed parts, relationships are an opportunity to be held and seen in our most raw state.</image:caption>
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